via: What is the secret to effective parenting? – www.henrybrandtfoundation.org
Dr. Ethel Wethering, a professor at Cornell University, once talked about 4 building blocks that help in raising children.
1. Attitude of Approval: A child’s attitude has a lot to do with the attitude of the parent. Choose to have a spirit of approval, so your child sees “I like you, even when you are bucking me.”
2. Help: When you have an expectation of your child, figure out how to help make it happen.
3. Respect: Be patient with your child and take time to understand what the child can and can’t do. Respect their abilities.
4. Affection and Tenderness: This building block can cement your relationship with your child. Show your love for your children. Hug them, tell them you love him. That will help you jump over a lot of hurdles and heal a lot of hurts.
